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Following up with a silent prospect without being pushy

A prospect who doesn't reply hasn't necessarily said no. Often they just forgot. Here's how to follow up twice, cleanly, then move on.

Silence isn't a refusal. Most of the time, your message arrived at the wrong moment and slid under a pile of others. A follow-up isn't pressure: it's a polite reminder.

The two follow-up rule

  • Follow-up 1, three to five days later: short, no reproach, with new information or a simple question.
  • Follow-up 2, a week later: a closing message that makes "no" easy.

After that, stop. Two well-made follow-ups get an answer far more often than one, and far more politely than five.

Example of a first follow-up

Hi Marc, bumping my message in case it got lost.

Is the question of unanswered quotes still on your plate?

Example of a closing message

Hi Marc, I don't want to clutter your inbox: I'll assume it's not the right time and won't follow up again.

If it becomes a priority, you know where to find me.

This message often gets a reply precisely because it asks for nothing.

What never to do

  • Guilt-trip: "I haven't heard back from you…"
  • Follow up the next day
  • Send exactly the same message again
  • Follow up on three different channels the same day

The number to track

The number of firm answers, yes or no, to your follow-ups. A clear no beats a lingering maybe: it frees your time for a prospect who will say yes.

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